Dear Elizabeth,
My friend has a granddaughter who cannot follow any of my house rules. She does what she wants, says what she wants, and will not stop being mean to others. Do you have any suggestions?
Signed,
Manners Needed in Miami
Dear Manners Needed in Miami,
We have all encountered children like this child. Just ask your friend not to bring her to your home or visit your friend at her home instead. Keep on talking with the child and remind her about being kind and thoughtful of others. Kids learn what they see so continue being a good example for her. Adults may not always “get” your reminders, but the kids will.