Dear Elizabeth,
I know so many friends who insist on being a friend to their children instead of a parent. Kids do need parents and not “friends.” Your thoughts?
Perplexed in Pittsburgh
Dear Perplexed in Pittsburgh,
I completely agree. Kids need parent role models, not parent “friends.” I see this all the time as
kids “negotiate” with their parents. Do your kids a favor and be the parent who sets
boundaries, models great behavior, and is proud of all that your children do. They, in turn, will be
the parent that you should be.