You should never, feisty women, under any circumstances seek a reconciliation with “Mr.Wonderful” if you have to belittle or berate yourself to do this. He is simply not worth sacrificing your self-worth to have him again be a part of your life. You deserve better! And even if you feel like revenge is in order, never ever commit any deeds of revenge, but let karma do its thing with just maybe a little help from you. You deserve the best that life has to offer and that is without your ex- “Mr.Wonderful” because he will never change, no matter how much you want him to change. You just need to let karma do its work, although sometimes a bit of “help” along the way may be in order.