Dear Elizabeth,
I am finding that my use of inappropriate language, specifically the f-bomb, is expanding in this age of the pandemic. I am trying to minimize this but it keeps slipping out left and right. I am embarrassed in public and surprised at myself because I have never used this kind of language in the past. Can we blame a stressful year? Any suggestions are appreciated.
Signed,
Queen of the F-Bomb
Dear Queen,
I have also been hearing more of the “f- bomb” in public spaces lately; seems to me you are not alone in your sudden temptation to use vivid language. Personally, I avoid this word and intend to keep it that way despite when I am feeling frustrated enough to do so.
Instead, I use a different “F” word as often as I can: forgiveness. Think about this for a moment. Instead of automatically reacting to outside situations with the ever prevalent f-bomb, think of forgiveness instead. For yourself, and the situations that may be driving you to use this language. It really takes on a whole new meaning. Hope this helps to reduce your stress!
Best,
Elizabeth